By DAVID TEPERA | Posted: Tuesday, January 5, 2016
Recently I attended my daughter’s volleyball tournament, and a few of the teams were more highly skilled than others.
During the tournament, Daylyn’s team played one of the higher-skilled teams. And quickly, the other team was dominating on the scoreboard.
Most of the girls, including Daylyn, were hanging their heads and had the look of defeat even though the game was only half way over. And yes, of course, they got slaughtered.
After the game, Daylyn told me she was embarrassed and disappointed with her and the team’s performance.
I told her, you will always face stronger opponents in everything you compete in, but don’t let them see you’re mentally defeated. Instead, show your opponents and teammates the look of determination.
Show everyone that you might be getting beat on the scoreboard, but you’re still going to out-hustle everyone on the court and give your very best.
Now, think about it. We all face challenging situations in our everyday lives. Sometimes, we feel like we’re getting beat up and want to drop our heads and give up. This will only make us feel more disappointed in ourselves.
Don’t let your opponents or situations know they are defeating you. Learn to create a game face with grit, determination and fight your way back into the game of life.
Just know, Daylyn was in that game situation again, but she had the look of a warrior and battled to the end.
If a 15-year-old athlete can learn life lessons, so can you.
Now, go look in the mirror, make the scariest game face imaginable, and tell yourself that no one will defeat you again. Take a mental picture and next time you’re feeling defeated, pull out that game face and win the day.
From this day forward, defeated is no longer a part of me. This world will only see determination.