By DAVID TEPERA | Posted: Tuesday, July 26, 2016
We all have strengths and weaknesses in every category of life. This includes job experience, relationships, spiritual, self-confidence, diets and habits.
I can’t express strongly enough the importance of competition from childhood throughout adult life. You learn to gauge your strengths and weakness compared to others competing in the same event. When you lose, you discover your weaknesses. When you win, you’re rewarded for your strengths.
We all hate to expose our weaknesses because we’re afraid others will judge us unfairly. But you must learn to pick yourself up and target those weaknesses. It will only make strengths even stronger.
The most obvious example is the sport of boxing. It’s almost certain the outcome is determined by who can protect the body and counter punch. If you can’t do this better than your opponent, you’ll get knocked out.
The biggest discovery is when you can turn a weakness into your strongest asset.
Believe me, I have many weaknesses, and I really do my best to overcome them.
All my years in school and college, my weakest academic class was English. It always dropped my GPA, even though it was still moderately high. I hated writing papers because my grammar was embarrassingly poor.
My English teacher in high school was Mrs. Watts. I think she only passed me because I was dating her daughter. Come on now, that wasn’t my strategy. I really did like her daughter.
When The Galveston County Daily News asked me to become a columnist, I was scared to expose my writing weakness to sports editor James LaCombe. James became my mentor and helped edit my articles until I became a strong writer.
I now write almost daily and it’s become my biggest passion. I also write for a monthly magazine, have written a play and started a feature film.
It still amazes me that I used to hide behind my weakness, but now I’m most known for it.
What about you? I bet if you worked on your weaknesses at work, you’ll start making more money and get promotions.
Most people’s weaknesses are bad diets and poor exercise habits. Make a stance and do something about it. Your whole life will change — I promise.
Today is the day to accept your weaknesses, pour energy into them and become stronger than you could ever imagine.