By DAVID TEPERA | Posted: Tuesday, July 19, 2016
We all carry different levels and types of demons within ourselves. We know our personal flaws, some of which are very destructive to our daily lives and those around us.
Many years ago, a friend of mine, whom I’ll call Mark, revealed to me that he was a weekend alcohol binger. Mark’s friends would come over, and his house always turned into a party.
At that time, Mark was a husband and a father of two toddlers and didn’t want to expose his kids to that lifestyle anymore.
Mark asked me for some help because he was sick and tired of being sick and tired.
I told Mark let’s take it one weekend at a time, and I’ll help you for the next two months.
I’d pick Mark up every Friday and Saturday evening during the time he would normally start drinking. We would spend one to two hours at the gym, where I put him through vigorous training.
Because Mark was worn out, he’d eat dinner, go to bed and get a good night’s rest. To Mark’s surprise, he started feeling amazing in the mornings, especially due to no hangover.
After those two months, Mark signed up for Saturday fun-runs, mini-triathlons, team bike rides and ran his first marathon.
Just know, once your body gets into shape, it will crave the surge of endorphins it receives from exercise. There is truly not a better high.
Mark finally dumped his drinking friends and only hung out with good people and parents whose common goal was to raise kids in a healthy environment.
Mark’s life became overwhelmingly productive. There wasn’t time for any destructive behavior. He looked forward to enjoying weekends to the fullest. He fell in love with himself and who he truly was as a person.
You see, Mark is just like all of us. We all have this passion to help each other, love neighbors and give our hearts around the world. You just have to find it within yourself like Mark did through exercise.
Accept and recognize your demons are out of control. Of course, there are many of you who need professional and spiritual help, but I challenge you to go outside this evening and take a long brisk walk.
Put on your headphones or just do some soul searching self-talks. Feel the sweat on your body and holler, “Hallelujah, I’m alive, I feel amazing and this world is better because I’m in it