By David Tepera, March 13, 2018
During my children’s childhood, while teaching them new experiences, there were many times they would fall-down or get hurt. I would find myself constantly telling them “get up and do it again.”
Now, before you judge me, I always made sure they weren’t injured. Really, typically, the only thing hurt was their feelings.
Also, throughout multiple years of coaching youth sports and even high school, I saw way too many parents babying their kids. Most of these kids were never hurt, they just knew their parents would run to their rescue and bail them out of an embarrassing situation.
Look, you can parent whichever way is best for you and your children. I don’t judge. I only observe because you can parent a dozen kids in the same manner, and you’ll still get 12 different outcomes. If you’re a multi-child family, then you understood that last statement.
But, for me, I chose to teach my kids the lessons of digging deep to accomplish a task, even after a complete failure.
A few examples in our house were: getting hit by a pitch, crashing on your bicycle, catching a football with your face, collisions in soccer and much more.
As of today, even though they are late teenagers, I’m proud to say, this part of my teaching skills is paying off. My kids know winning doesn’t come easy.
Constantly reinforcing this determined behavior in my children has forced me do the same as an adult.
How many of you get frustrated with your job, spouse, family, diet, exercise and so on?
Don’t we all want to cry for mommy to come rescue us?
But guess what? If you want to be the leader in your family, then you must develop the character as one.
There will be many times throughout life where we will get knocked down. Never allow anyone or any situation to keep you down. Let the intensity boil inside, dig deep and just get up and do it again because with the right mindset, you’ll succeed in life.