By DAVID TEPERA | Posted: Tuesday, May 31, 2016
Well, Memorial Day weekend has past and it’s the official start of seasonal hot Texas weather.
I’m sure there are many of you dreading outside activities knowing short clothing and swimsuits are required.
Look, you’ve probably dealt with this situation for many years, but relax; it’s only as embarrassing as you perceive it.
Here’s what I’ve come to realize and understand through my own life experiences.
Usually, young adults from their late teens through their 20s judge others’ bodies the most. This is probably due to the aftereffect of harshness and bullying throughout school years. They think everyone is looking at them when actually we don’t care.
Adults in their 30s become less critical because they’ve started a family and raising children takes full mental capacity. It seems like both mommy’s and daddy’s bodies change after childbirth, and it’s OK; you’re in this together.
Then comes the age of the 40s when you realize your body doesn’t respond like it did before.
The kids are grown, out of the house, and you’re possibly facing a divorce. It’s typically during these years when adults take drastic steps trying to create a better looking body.
Plastic surgeons live in mansions and drive fancy cars due to the panicking 40s generation.
Now, I can personally speak for the 50s age adults. Negative judging of others’ bodies is no longer a thought process. It’s easy to find beauty in everyone. We become more attracted to people for who they are, rather than physical appearance.
I know a lady who is physically drop-dead gorgeous, but once she starts speaking and judging others, she becomes quite unattractive in my eyes.
Sorry to categorize ages 60s and beyond, but it seems that all you talk about is body ailments. You try to outdo each other by who’s had the most joint replacements and surgeries.
Now that hurricane season is around the corner, I can hear you now — “Thar’s a storm brewing in the Gulf. I’m gonna have to board this darn house with these bad knees, back and shoulders.”
So really, don’t worry about what others are thinking because they aren’t thinking about you.
Wear whatever makes you comfortable and enjoy the coming summer months.