By DAVID TEPERA, February 22, 2017
Out of all these situations, I’ve noticed a common statement from these coaches when being interviewed.
They are asked, “Coach, this team has never had a winning season. What changed and turned it around this year?”
Coaches reply, “Not only this team, but this school and the whole town has never been part of a winning season. Historically, losing is what’s expected each year. These players had to learn to believe in themselves and each other to change history.”
Now, the impactful word that empowers me is “historically.”
How many of you have developed bad habits because, historically, you feel it’s part of your family bloodline?
How many people think only rich kids become wealthy? Just because everyone in your family is obese and lazy, doesn’t mean that’s your destiny.
Where will this historically destructive pattern cease? Who is going to believe in themselves and realize the only person preventing success is in the mirror?
A better life is waiting right outside your front door.
That’s it. No more excuses. I’m getting off this “excuse” couch to change not only my life, but also my family.
You had no control of your childhood, neighborhood or schools attended, but you have control of your adult life. You’ve put a plan in place and set goals to reach success beyond dreams. Each day you take a step closer to better finances, healthier lifestyle, quality relationships, along with being a better role model for your children.
In the future years, when your relatives look back over the family tree, it will be your name that created the foundation for everyone’s success. It was you that fed and watered the roots which produced much fruit.
Today is the beginning of which your family will say, “Historically, we always find a way to conquer adversity and come out winners. It’s who we are.”