By David Tepera, May 20, 2026
It’s here, thousands are graduating from high school and college. It’s exciting, but scary at the same time. For the last 12-plus years, your life was planned out and on cruise control. Every year was the same as last, but just one grade further. Well, it’s time to grow up and control your destiny.
Listen, I might not be the best person for advice, but I am sharing a personal experience from a 65-year-old. Believe me, I’ve made more mistakes than I want to admit. But, my failures gave me humility which helped in the journey towards success.
I tried college right out of high school, but wasn’t disciplined enough. So, I ventured out into the workforce to give my best, but couldn’t find satisfaction. After six years, I went back school, received a few degrees and found my destiny.
Now, that was in the 1980’s. Today, is a totally different world with the internet and all it’s access. The whole world is connected, along with unlimited opportunity, you just need creativity and ambition.
Everyone has a special gift of talent. Think about it, what is yours? If your ambition requires a college degree, then go for it. In today’s world, I would not have gone to college. There’s way too much opportunity to be successful without going into debt.
Please, don’t misunderstand me, I am not poo pooing a college education. All you need to do today is research jobs on demand. People can make six figure incomes with less than two years of training. Believe me, you’ll be surprised of the lengthy list.
What I learned the most throughout my adult years is that exercise gave me confidence to tackle any situation.
At the age of 26, I started lifting weights and exercising outdoors. This cleared my mind, along with building stronger muscles. As I ran further and lifted heavier, I realized my mind could absorb more knowledge. Why settle for mediocre, when I can push to be the best of me?
My message is that you have full control of what is put into your mind and body. Don’t beat yourself up over mistakes as long as you’re giving it your best.
Now, get out there, find your destiny and make this world a better place.