By David Tepera, September 29, 2021

It’s been quite an interesting year for me. I had a few friends and family members pass away, including my father and a son. Just know, none were COVID related.

I refer to these experiences as mental and emotional pains. As much as my heart aches, I found a way to allow myself to accept this part of life and move forward.

Also, I’ve been dealing with chronic lower back pain for more than a year. Most mornings start off debilitating, and I can barely walk throughout the house. I’ve been taking over-the-counter pain meds and lubing up with a variety of pain creams. I refer to this experience as physical pain.

Recently, I started seeking medical attention because I’m competing at the end of October and need to be at the top of my game. At 60 years old, I’m quite sure I’ll be the oldest competitor.

Alright, by now, you’re thinking, “OK, David, we all have the same pains, so what’s your point?”

I’ve come to the position in life where I appreciate every day and everyone in my life. I’ve never had this much love in my heart for the people I’m surrounded by. I’m a very lucky man.

Here’s the point; I was explaining to Tina that I welcome all the mental and physical pain I had or have in my life. This is all because at the same time, I get to feel loved, experience victories and make people smile every day.

So you know, besides Tina, I get to see my adult children every day. Even though Dylan is financially independent and has his own apartment, we own a family business, so we get to hug and say how much we love each other throughout the day.

Our 20-year-old daughter lives with us, including college classes and working. We get the same wonderful experience of showing our love each day.

I know that’s a lot of personal information about me, but I’m trying to make you think and reflect on your own life. We can’t escape tragedy and death. As we get older, it seems to chase us down.

Yes, one day we will all die and the pain will go away. But, that’s why we must welcome the pain. It’s God’s way of letting you know to stay in the fight. This world can knock you down, but it can’t knock you out. Stay strong and recognize the love that surrounds you. Every day is a blessing.