By David Tepera, December 8, 2021

Since I’ve become much older, at the ripe old age of 60, I’ve given up trying to be perfect.

I do feel fortunate because my physical peak was around 42 years old. I could weight lift at my heaviest, run my fastest, jump high and dunk a ball, plus dominate other competitors anywhere near my age. But, it’s all over now. I’m on a downslide, but I’m far superior to most men my age.

Now, I’m not trying to pat myself on the back thinking I’m better than most. Remember, I’m a professional athlete, so I’m comparing myself to the average man. If you feel good and you’re happy, you’ve already separated yourself from your peers.

OK, where am I going with all this? There are times when my body feels achy and tired, but it still works. I don’t always sleep extremely well, but I chose to get up and fight another day. I might not have much money in my wallet, but my belly is full. I don’t have all the things I ever wanted, but I do have all the things I need. My life is nowhere near perfect, but I’ve never been happier.

Think about all this. There comes a time in our life where we must be grateful for what we have and who we are. Learn to accept your so-called faults, laugh at imperfections and just be you.

Quit worrying about what others think because that’s their problem. If they’re talking about you, they’re jealous of your success and happiness.

Tina and I know a few people who have a thriving business in the plastic surgery industry. Just know, I do support people wanting to make enhancements to look better, but we all know those individuals who have gone way too excessive.

Don’t look for perfection; accept the things that separate you from others. Tina, our adult children and I all have different sets of scars from experiencing life. To me, our scars tell a story of giving our best in life.

What story do your scars tell? I feel a woman with stretch marks from child birth has a beautiful and tender touch. A true husband in love will find these attractive because they went through this together.

Take a step back today, forget about being what others think is perfect, and learn to love yourself because you are perfect the way God designed you.

Now, put on a big smile, give yourself a high five, and go out and kick some butt today.