By David Tepera, March 2, 2022
Recently, I took my 21-year-old daughter Daylyn out for lunch. Along the way, she plugged her music playlist into my truck stereo. To my surprise, we were listening and singing along to Earth, Wind & Fire. Obviously, a group from the late 1970s, which brought me back to my high school days.
Daylyn told me she’s been enjoying the sounds of early years through the 1990s. We had a blast seeing who knew the words to the music, plus laughing along the way because neither of us can carry a tune. Sorry, Daylyn, but it’s true.
On the way back home, Daylyn played one of her new favorites — Michael Jackson’s song “Man in the Mirror.” Well, this turned out to be a daddy-daughter lesson. I asked Daylyn if she really paid attention to the words and their meaning? Her answer: “Not really, I just started learning the words.”
I want to share my message to Daylyn with all of you. Listen, this world and our environment are on an unpredictable path. The only thing you can truly control is yourself. Quit making excuses and blaming others for your weakness.
When you are happy with yourself, then you wish the best for all others. If you can’t get out of your funky attitude, then start exercising, along with a better diet. This will immediately impact your attitude. And don’t forget there’s a higher power to pray to. Bottom line, you must find a way to become a better person in our society.
“Man in the Mirror” starts off with a man who wants to make a change for once in his life. He knows it’s going to feel good to make a difference. He sees people who are underprivileged and need a break. The only way to change the world is starting with the man in the mirror.
Why can’t we embrace our neighbors, brothers and sisters? Why not use the same hand that points fingers — to pick someone up?
It’s amazing how the little things can put a smile on people’s face. Tina, the kids and I open doors for everyone, greet people with respect and give compliments.
What changes can you make today? What lessons are you teaching your children? Are you an asset to our society or another laptop bully?
Today, let’s make a decision to make a change in our world. Just remember, it starts with the man in the mirror.