By David Tepera, May 1, 2024
As we all can reflect on our lives, there were many instances when life changed course because of a particular moment. This could be from a positive or a challenging circumstance.
Personally, my positive course changes were from the birth of my children, graduating college in my 30s, opening a business and marrying my amazing wife, Tina. Of course, there are many others, but I’m just trying to get you to think about your positive life changes.
It’s not fun, but reflecting over harsh situations in life that forced a change in direction can be difficult. Actually, I have more life-changing events than I’d like to admit, but it made me the humble man I’ve become.
One of my biggest course changes was walking through the Boston airport after speaking to a major medical company. My phone rang and the officer on the line had the difficult task to tell a father that his son passed away that morning. I hit my knees as my body went limp. The uncontrollable wailing gathered the attention of other passersby. Some came to my aid, but it took every ounce of energy to gather my composure to get on the plane.
Think about that flight. It was a day trip as I looked out the window looking for my son sitting on the clouds to let me know it’s going to be alright.
When you’ve experienced multiple tragedies, believe me, you can let go all of the small stuff. I just shake my head at all the people hating on social media and in print, and they don’t even know each other. Remember, the only thing you can control is you, so hit the delete button and enjoy the people you love.
Now, what life changes are you working on? Are you going to school, working overtime to buy the house, dating your future spouse or you fill in the blank? Come on, we all have dreams, so don’t give up on them. As long as you’re giving this world your best, life-changing course moments are on their way.
Remember, being happy is simply being thankful for what you have. Too many people think happiness is what others have. Look around, I guarantee you have a lot to smile about.
I would like you to think how important you are in this world. Just think, you are one small gesture from changing someone else’s course. Take at least one day to be as courteous as possible to all strangers, coworkers, family and friends. You never know, but at that moment in time, they needed you.