By David Tepera, May 28, 2025

I do realize Memorial Day passed a few days ago, but I thought to share some history and facts surrounding such an important holiday.

Most of you know, I lost my oldest son Army Specialist Dustin Ray Tepera, who served in the Iraq war from 2008 through 2012. He was a gunner who road last at the back of convoys. Dustin’s job was to protect the squad from the enemy attacking from the rear. Well, Dustin was involved in combat and was awarded for his bravery. He did help save his brigade.

So, Memorial Day weekend is a little different for me and all those families who lost loved ones who fought for the United States of America.

Now, how did this holiday weekend get started? Just know, Memorial Day is for all those who lost their lives serving this country. Veteran’s Day is for those both deceased and living who served.

Its roots trace back to the aftermath of the Civil War (1861-1865). Communities and towns began spring-time tributes to all the fallen soldiers. At that time, it was known as Decoration Day.

Memorial Day was officially declared a federal holiday in 1971 and is observed on the last Monday of May.

Some people don’t know, but at 3 p.m. on Memorial Day, all Americans are asked to pause and reflect.

The good news is, Memorial Day weekend also marks the beginning of summer, so let the barbecues begin.

Sometimes, we must ask ourselves “I might not be a soldier, but how can I serve?” What are you doing in your life that helps others?

Those of you in management, do you lift up your employees or bring them down? This is the same as coaching. Players and employees will pick up skills and perform at their best when there is great leadership. That’s how you develop a winning team.

There are lots of you out there volunteering to make lives better. I commend you for helping those in need. Nothing is more precious than giving your time to others because we have limited time on this earth.

None of us will be around forever, so when the day comes, how will you be remembered?