By David Tepera, June 23, 2021
People usually want others to form opinions about them by the words they speak. I’ve heard many great leaders and coaches with uplifting speeches. I’ve also listened to so-called ordinary people promote themselves by telling others how they should behave.
I’m sure all these people have good intentions, though some may not. But what tells me about you are the little things.
For example, where do you leave your shopping cart? Are you courteous of others by putting it back in the rack or are you showing lack of respect and laziness by leaving it in the parking lot?
No, you didn’t break any laws or cause harm to others, but you also didn’t care for anyone but yourself. Most of us fear shopping carts hitting our cars or not being able to park in a particular space. To me, you’re lazy and selfish.
How do you treat total strangers? Are you courteous to open doors for others? Do you respond to people with “ma’am” and “sir?”
Gentlemen, if you’re at a gathering of people and there’s not enough chairs for everyone, do you offer your seat to women or the elderly? This action or not is a true test of character.
For those who frequent gyms and fitness centers: Do you rerack your weights? Are you hanging out on one particular piece of equipment for a long period of time? Are you hogging several exercise machines because your workout is more important than that of others? I don’t care how in shape or muscular you are. To the rest of us, you’re insecure and a bonehead.
Now, for the rest of you. When I see someone doing a good deed, I will let them know how thankful I am. The deed does not have to be for me.
People who are courteous and respect others are our true leaders in life. It’s your actions that bring happiness and positivity back in the world. You might never get the recognition you deserve, but I’m sure you’re not looking for it either, because it’s just who you are.
If you want to get further in business, relationships or in life, then start showing others through actions. It’s not just words that excite others, it’s hands-on and hard work. Lift people up, don’t put them down.
Remember, it’s the little things that tell us about you.