By David Tepera, August 25, 2022
As we go through life, there are times when we want something so badly that it completely consumes our minds. But, what eventually happened to that passion? Once we conquer it, we seem to not give it much attention any more.
When it comes to relationships, how bad did you want the girl or guy? Were you giving up sleep and eliminating everything in order to court this person? Then, hopefully, after all the attention and investment you put into the courtship, you both were happily married.
Why over time does this passion go away? What happened that you are no longer best friends? Just because your wife had children, that’s still the sexiest person you wanted so badly.
Parenting is a full-time partnership. When children are young, most times parents have a difficult time to focus on themselves. So, it’s OK to gain a little weight and get out of shape together. But, you must continue to find a way to court each other emotionally.
Remember, the grass isn’t greener on the other side as long as you’re watering your own grass.
How many of you saved up and finally bought your dream car? At first, you kept it clean and immaculate. But then, you started making monthly payments, and it needed new tires and regular oil changes. Because of all the maintenance, you lost interest and now you want something different.
For some reason, most people are always chasing something bigger when it comes to material luxury. Don’t misunderstand me. Yes, you should pursue higher or self-employment, education, more income, dreams and passion. Just don’t let keeping up with the Joneses make you lose focus of your destiny.
Now, how bad do you want to lose weight? How many diet and exercise programs have you failed? At first, you were all in and started losing weight. What made you give up — again? Why can’t you stick with a program?
Look, everything we had control of and failed was because of our lack of discipline. Notice the key phrase is “control of.” Don’t let so-called “bad days” make you quit. It’s only a minor setback, so get back up and keep trying.
Today you are going to change your game plan. It’s time to recognize and embrace all that surrounds you because you do remember how badly you once wanted what you have now.